… so then I pour some on her finger and suck it off as well. That gets the sexual tension up. WE fluff a bit more … I give her a hand massage and tell her I love to give massages. She gives me a hand one for like 5 mins and then proceeds to do my arms. She’s good! I then (at the same time) start doing her arms and she says “you ARE good!” …I mention to her that I give a killer massage with oil and that I have some awesome stuff at my house…. I said “do you trust me a little?” .. she says “yea” … I say “ok, let’s go”
Tonight met up with some german pua’s. hung out with yen for the second time. He rocks.
He’s telling me me it’s a limiting belief having girls over and not fucking them – or in general
not fucking girls when I meet them or on the day 2. maybe. Is is that crazy to wanna know some
girls?? IS IT? It’s not. Tho yea I know, some I may not be able to lay later, so do it sooner if
you can. I know I know.
I’ve been sending (her) little texts in Japanese (there are free websites than translate any
language to any other) and it’s totally cute. Just funny little message in Japanese. “you are a
sexy girl!” or “I like your feet, haha” or whatever. She replied “what, are you
crazy!?” but I said “it’s funny because it’s in Japanese!!” (in Japanese) and eventually she said
“I like your funny messages!” … but at first she just sent “you are crazy, what’s wrong
with you!) … little shit test? Her English isn’t perfect but she shit tested me the other day
too, as a joke she said “and I am cancelling our date tomorrow!” so I’d just replied “too
bad, we would have had fun. Ok see you some day….” But she texted back “yea I know it would
be fun. See you tomorrow” … it’s amazing the difference having fuckloads of girls on the go
makes – I really wouldn’t have cared much if she did cancel. I’d just have called another
girl!! Woooo I have a strong frame! I’m not needy! Hahaha it’s great!!
Japanese girl had plans for Monday night, and prop can’t see bisexual girl on mond, am busy
tues. plan is too see bisexual girl wed in the day, and hopefully jap wed night (or thur night) …
feels good to spend time with a couple of girls and get to know them. I’m just not chasing other
girls. If it’s easy fine, but otherwise I’m busy. Yay!
Sat
Hurt my foot running at the gym. Decide I’m not going out. Spiritual/reiki guy comes over to
hang and do some reiki on my messed up back. I do actually get some tingles in my head. And
this slight nausea when he was working on my stomach. We chatted for hours and have a lot in
common… he told me he’s had an “enlightenment” where all his chakras opened up and shit. Crazy
stuff. He’s at a crossroads, just as I am. Fuck we talked about so much shit! For a moment it
occurred to me that spiritual enlightenment and findind peace with yourself and “god” and the
world is much more important than PU and that maybe all this … just isn’t that important in the
scheme of things. For a moment ;) … don’t worry guys. I’m not there …. Yet….
Yad came over for a bit and brough some girl along. Turns out she had a BF, lol.
I had 3 or 4 girls contact me after midnight!!!
One Russian girl who’s number I got on that crazy day when I’d gotten 7 #’s texted me. I
called her and we talked. She’s fucking bored in this town, and has some “BF” but I think
it’s just a fuck buddy. I can nail her I think. She wants to hang out
This black girl facebooked me, we chatted on msn. So boring. She’s hot but I already know she
doesn’t have a personality. Can I be bothered?
Then the crazy/boring polish girl. She sent me this message “well I’m a bit drunk after work
to be honest, just wanted to tell you that you seem quite an interesting person and that you
touched me last time. Was good to meet you, that’s it. Take care.”
At 1am! I almost texted her back “come over if you want to see me” but just the thought of
having to lay next to her after the fact – I can’t do it. She’s painfully fucking unexiting
and has serious issues. I almost sent the next but decided I had the will not to. I’m going to
fucking HOLD OUT for sex with a woman I actually want/like. So I’ve held out….
Part of me thinks any girl texts you after 12 she is down to fuck. I almost said to the Russian
“come over! Let’s have tea at mine!” … she was disappointed when I cut the call off at
like 30 mins. I could hear it in her voice…. Shit fuck I just wanna know if she’s have come lol.
Friday –
Date with hot Vietnamese girl (from crazy 7# close day)
She’s got a hot face. Not thin – not much personalit. Said all her friends are Japanese
girls. Will try get her out! Friend time!
Went to the club 24 and brought around 15 girls. Mainly hot ones but some “friends” of girls
who were not so hot.
One girl was shit testing the crap out of me.
“My friend says you are a player”
I said “yea, I’m a player!”
“How many girls have you slept with?” – I said “will you believe me if I tell you?”
… she said “yea” … I said 25 and she stared me down then said “ok I believe you”
“are you addicted to girls?”
I was like “huh? All men are addicted to girls. It’s in our DNA. What are you weird?”
And also “how many of these girls have you slept with?”
I said “I haven’t slept with any of them….yet”
Better answer would have been “all of them!” haha
Anyways she was annoying. I’d made out with her last week in another club, but I really
don’t fancy her at all. Ah well.
I spend the night with another girl. Some girl I’d gamed and didn’t even remember meeting
when she facebooked me. She came out tho and we talked. She was cool. She was very interested. So
many ioi’s! I asked if she wants to get some coffee and she’s like “yep!” so we go for it.
I take her to my secret spot. We talk a lot – fuck she’s cool! And bisexual! We make out .
good kisser. Again – I know I could have just said “let’s go back to mine” right out of the
club, but I admit I didn’t feel comfortable doing it. We make plans to see each other again.
Next time tho, I will bring her straight over to my place. I asked her if she did one night stands
and she said no she’s never had one. I asked if she’d ever slept with someone the night
she’d me them and she said yea, with a lot of her relationships. Helooooo … yea I guess I still have
some limiting beliefs!!
Anyways it was a great great night and I made a connection with this awesome girl. It will be
kewl to see her again!
Thur hug out with yen
Got a # from this cute Korean girl. She checked me out when she passed my and I yelled “I saw
you check me out!! You’re unreal!” and came up to here. She told me she liked my glasses and
my shirt. She was DTF I could tell. She said she liked yen as well. I told her to facebook me –
was going to get her # (said in case u loose my card) and she said “I’ll add you” and I said
“ok!” … she added me, couple of messages, got her # now so will meet up when I have time.
May try just bring her straight back just to see what happens. Once I walked back to yen tho,
after talking to her she was like “dude, spitroast! Go go go !! and we went loking for her but it
was too late. I wanted to hang with him anyway so whatever….
Wed – did a gig. Had my new friend the spiritual reiki guy come out – had a day 3 with the
little Japanese midget. I made her come a bit west near notting hill gate to where the show was. I
was performing. I told her I had a surprise for her. It was the interval and I was mc’ing the
gig. So I get her to take a seat. Then I go up and start the show and her mouth was completely
open. I joked with the audience “look at her! She had no idea I was performing!” and she
actually yelled “what are you doing there!!” hahaha everyone cracked up it was just one of those
hilarious moments
So I take her into the west end – we grab tea’s to go and I take her to one of my secret
spots. Can’t post that. Can’t have a bunch of pua’s knowing where I take my girls, hehe but
it’s pretty cool. We talk …. I’d tried kissing her a couple of times but I got the check!
Aaargh! I just kept trying – it’s not too hard when u know it’s on. Eventually I break thru and
there’s lots of making out.
In the end I waited with her for her bus (which also went to my place) but It didn’t show for
like 40 minutes and it was cold. When the next bus that showed up (that went to my place) I just
took her hand and said “come on!” … I’d already said she can stay at mine but she said “I
should go home, I have to work in the morning!” but she didn’t fight at all
When we got to mine, I said “ok that’s your side. I’ll join you later. She asked if she
can sleep in her jeans and I said whatever she likes. I told her she better stay on her side of the
bed, took her scarf and put it down the center making a line. She said “YOU better stay on your
side! Hehe” … anyways I rubbed her feet as she fell asleep, played on the internet and then
joined her.
Yea yea the little voice in my head was saying “come on baby, this is it” .. yea maybe it
could have been, but I like this chick and didn’t feel the need to try and fuck her. It felt like
it’s too early. I think in japan people don’t fuck so quick although I know the girls are
even more sexual and dirty than western girls. (I’m started to think this but we’ll see – more
“research” needs to be done, hehe.
Saw her off in the morning. Got a text saying how much fun she had, etc. will see her again
soon…. Ooh she’s cute!! And fun!!
Ok, I took an aids test last week. Well, to be accurate, I took all the tests. But there's only one I'm really worried about. Funny that. We're all so concerned wth Aids. Hep B is a motherfucker too, you know? Shortened life space, liver disease. No thanks. Even though the results for everything else are ready today, Im not going in. I want all the bad news at once. I don't want to be cleared of all the OTHER stuff, then be told I've got Aids. Oh - and I AM expecting bad news. I'm a wreck. What's the matter with me? I don't sleep around. Honest. I can't take this pressure!! So I've decided that i'm going to live my life another way. No, I'm not going to have less sex. No, I'm not going to use condoms more. I'm just going to Assume that I've got aids. Always. As soon as i've had sex one time, with one girl without a condom - that's it! I've got AIDS! That way, when I get the negative test result, I'm really happy. Im calling everyone i know "HEY!! I DON'T HAVE AIDS!! PARTY AT MY HOUSE NEXT WEEKEND! YEAAA!!!! IT'S MY THIRD "I DONT HAVE AIDS AND IM NOT GOING TO DIE PARTY! EVERYONE IS INVITED obviously dont invite people that have aids, as that would be really awkward for them. They should have attended the "I HAVE AIDS AND I'M GOING TO DIE PARTY" - which I held the month before... (just after I had sex with the dodgy girl with three front teeth,) you know? That was the party for them. Ok, maybe its a bit over the top. But hey, any excuse to throw a party right? So in a week, when I post the result, theres going to be a little shin dig people. AIDS ROCKS!! (Well, uh you know what I mean) oh and since were on the subject, while I was cruising around looking at AIDS statistics (yes, working out the statistical probability that Ive got aids as we all do when you go for the test fun for the whole fun family) I discovered a very interesting statistic. Check this out.
For one particular region, It said the new H.I.V cases for whites was 11800, blacks, 19000. (about 50% more. And For new cases for whites, 395000, blacks, 398000. (Almost the same) Does this means some white people are going straight to aids? Thats nice. Can you see this conversation?
Husband Honey, Ive come back from the doctor. Ive got good news and Ive got bad news.
Wife Give me the good news first
Husband Ok the good news is, I havent got H.I.V
Wife Oh thank god. Oh thank you Jesus. Praise the lord! Whats the bad news?
Husband Ive got Aids baby, I got Aids. Thats right - straight to aids. I dont fuck around. Well, I do, thats why Ive got aids.
Had a date with the cute Japanese midget from that I met in
Met up with snoball, dunners, don charisma, max, reis, cyber, and some new cats I ain’t never seen before (or just barely)
Some fucked off right quick (including snoball) but he got me non-latex condoms for a gift! Thanks duuude!! And don got me a silly trancey flahey necklace... (not e to go with it tho) L
My vibe is so strong now – I just look at girls and they open me sometimes. I just chat shit for a bit, flirt a bit and just get their number. some of the really hot girls try the “I don’t give my # out shit and I just kill it with one of my lines and they crumble every time… it’s so easy it’s unreal. Like 3 of the girls I # closed today were like model hot 9’s for sure. One Chinese one had a BF I could tell she wasn’t happy with and still gave me her number (I won’t call her) and another one wouldn’t say so I figure she does kidna have one… we’ll see how it plays out… Here a pic of the one I was smooching last night. She does modeling which I didn’t realize. She’s been textin me today… She’ looks even hotter on this pics! Jesus Christ!!!! I almost shit myself when I saw these!! She really is a stunner. Can’t believe I had my tongue in her mouth yesterday. (well, I can…)
Anyways yea as usually pushed some new kiddies into sets, etc. my new amazing opener is the fucking bollocks. it just stops girls cold.
Is was fun just going super sargin on my b day pua party. Guys tho, if I run after some tail, don’t just stand around open some fucking sets!! Come on!! I’m going to to start using my belt on you new guys and whipping your butts!! Hehe….
Had a date with the Romanian girl from last night. Yea, she liked about being Lithuanian. I asked why, she said “because nobody knows
Met up with beballer briefly in soho just to say hey… ran into some other lss guys and say what’s up before heading over to angel to meet dunners and some new guys. Sarged my way into the *middle of the line (what??) for hoxton bar whatever it’s called and eventually got in. I’m openening up the whole place and it seems to be on with this one pretty hot girl from outside. I give her my card and tell her I’ll see her later…. So I meet the new guys and try get them into some sets. Aaron uses my line and gets a great reaction - gets into a good 2 set. I wing and we chat up these girls. One of them was like “We wish other guys were as cool as you. We just get approached by boring guys who say “are you having a good night” heheh.. yep. Anyways I get the # for mine, but she wasn’t that hot, just to come along to this party they are having. They insist we come. He facebook closes his one. I tell him go for the # next time….good work though dude
I open and pull the a couple other guys into sets with girls but they fizzle… we hit the dancefloor and do a bit of that. I opened one or two hotties that had BF’s… bit of dance game…. Eventually the hottie from before opens me on the dance floor and it’s on with her. She really has fantastic tits. The fucking cunting flash on my piece of SHIT sony ericsson k 800 decides to (occasionally and for weeks at a time not work) so I can’t take a pic. She has some on her phone I’ll get her to text them) … this chick really is gorgous, but not as thin as I like them. Will post the pics up when I get a hold of them. So we make out and whatever. I don’t even wanna try bring her back. She says she wants to see me again, etc. she’s telling me why she likes me, etc
Oh everyone was opening me by the end of the night. Like people I’ve met, people I haven’t met it was silly. And I only go IN there at like 12.30?? got some food with her and her mate and dunners after and that’s a wrap
God she really had a beautiful face. 21 years old. When I said I was 29 I said “oooh you’re too young for me baby!” and she’s like “my ex was 29!” and I’m like “alright then!” … did lots of walk aways and she’s ALWAYS pull me back on the dance floor. It was so on
Soooooo onnnnnnnnn
* yea you’d think if you’re going to be a cunt and use your skills to push into a line, you’d have the good sense to go to the front of the que, but not me. What a dildo I am sometimes….
Went out with dunners and beballer. Kewl guys! Met up in oxford. Couple of girls were throwing themselves at me and Dunners but we just ignored them, hehe…. Then we hit up Clapham. Beeballer was mainly chillin with his ex girl (friend?) so it was me and dunners. He told me he doesn’t usually approach girls he finds attractive and goes indirect. I’m like “what? You’re HOT! Fuck this! Go say (yadda yadda) to those girls (HOT blonde and her ug friend) he went in and they loved it! I kept making him do that and he loved it. I send him to open this 2 set of sitting hotties and 1 of them was SO mean it was unreal. I just kept negging her back after she negged me and it got really ugly. I eject, but he (credit to him) goes back in and # closes his one! Apparently they were really nice when I left. Haha. Oh well. Can’t win them all. I went back in to the bitchy one just as a challenge to see if I could break her down – I was making progress when they went to get more booze… I then opened this HB9 I saw earlier at the bar (me and dunners were going to open but he wanted to check the back) and when we got back 2 guys were in there. Anyways I stuck in with this girl for around 30 mins. Great chat, she was a dentist, 25. very fucking hot. We make plans for hot choc on Tuesday. Dunners seems pretty chuffed to realize he can just go direct on any fuckin girl he fancies and it’s all good. I opened a hottie on the tube earlier and she fucking loved it even tho she had a BF. You really can just go for it. Funny, in set with the dentist I told her I was going to chat them up earlier but didn’t wanna be a dick when those 2 guys were trying it on…hehe… was really open about the whole thing. Got an interrupt from ( I think their friend?) but handled it gracefully. Let him know she was hooking up with me though pretty quick, hheheh… I just shuffled him over to her blonde friend and that was that….
Anywho then on the street there’s a fucking cute 3 set, 1 guy and 2 girls. I go for the single girl, joke around and get her #... she says she’s Lithuanian. She’s drunk and I say to dunners “that’s a flake, but if my phone game is strong maybe I can get her out. Maybe 33% I’ll see her again, if that….)
Dunnners you’re a natural baby you can have any of these chicks you want, no probs! All you had to do is what I did – accept that as your reality and just fucking go for it matey!!! You’re going to be fucking like a rock star!!! Diiiiiiiiireeeeeect motherfucker is where it’s at ! Xoxox I love u dude!!
Feb 14th
Today was sick. Valentines day
Mainly was using “"Hey girl... Where's your boyfriend... It's valentines day!"
Date at
this girl is hot, great energy. Good times. Used “you are cool…to hang out with” which worked well and disqualified herself cuz she smokes. She bought my drink! This girl was so so so cool. Taking about EEEverything!! Ooh can’t wait to actually hang out with her again. She away on the weekend but whe she gets back…
Texted one hot polish girl who seemed to be flaking. I said “even though u suck I wanted to wish you a happy valentines day!”
Her reply
“I don’t suck, im fact I’m pretty awesome. I’m just not sure if I’m into an 8yr age gap … x
my reply
Wow. You look fucking amazing for a 37 year old!! Thought u’d be adventurous enough to have a drink with me. Mayube we’d be friends? It’s not all about sex! :P
Her reply
Its not? What a sahme :P lol yeahn I know, everyone keeps telling me I look great, u gotta love botox nowadays. Well,okay then, iguess I could get convinced about that drink :P
See? Shit test – blow thru it – or even if that’s really the reason, just diffuse it.
Hit the streets with Yad, hook up with Lucy and lucy, on a uni campus building got #’s and cuddled/kisses neck, massaged a bit, then went into town. Oneil’s. all the hot ones had BF’s but I just got to know them and gave them my card to come out to a gig. Ooh, worked this one german cutie for 10-12 mins. She was hard work but I just led and got her to open up a bit…couldn’t get her to put her number in the phone. The band came on and it was too loud so I just went for the # close, she didn’t comply. Almost, then she’s like “uh, I don’t even know you” and I use my # close lines, I’m already stalking 3 girls, etc and she still hesitates. I say well I need my phone back, one way or another. She gives it back and I walk off. I didn’t have the patience really to work it any further… she seemed a bit uptight anyways.. if she calls fine… if not fine…
Did dance and chat with this one HB9 american girl who had a man but she insisted on coming to one of my shows… I told her it can be arranged
Hit the streets, get a number from HB9 18 year old blone in the lineup for cheapskates. My vibe/frame was so strong I just did it in front of everyone. Her friends were like “yea she’s single!” and 2 guys in the line were like “holy fuck! This guy is amazing!” … some chick was like “hey, no line cutting!” and I said “I just want her phone number, I’m not coming into the club! And she’s like ok cool” … so I chatted just till she was about to go in and got her number. about 5 mins chatting altogether, might be ok. I won’t text this one, this one is getting a phone call. Yep.
Then more gamin on the streets – called lucy from before, they’re around the corner. Me and yad hit them up. I make out and grind with mine. Yad’s been fucking to much even to try bang his one though she’s quite cute. Mine says her bro is crazy and she should go home (she’s staying with him) and has to be up at 9. I’m not that bothered but she asks if we can go out either fri or say and I say maybe, give me a call.
On the bus back I am just opening the whole fucking bus really, as soon as I walk on the girls to my left. I social proofed gamed I guess because when I opened these other girls they were like “you want us to touch your horns too?” haha … anyway this one girl was fucking super hot. Her game was at least as tight as mine. You could tell she had a lot of guys chatting her up. In was unreal. It was like a fucking boxing match between me and her, seriously. Like BAM, BAM<>th and came out on top on the 10th. Tough, but very fun using my skills and actually being matched. i was impressed. It occurs to me that a hot girl gets approached probably as much as (well, not quite) but on par to how much a PUA approaches girls. Me personally if I actually go out “gaming” I’m opening maybe 25-35 sets per night. That was up till now, now I’m getting more picky and better at building rapport and I’m trying to really solidify the numbers so it’s going to be less. But a newbie can open up like 25 (even 40 of 50) because so many sets go nowhere, right? But a girl that hot is going to get 10-12 guys per night.. so I’d say she’s getting half (maybe a third) of the in field experience of a PUA. Right? But she’s been getting this all he LIFE. Like since she was 15 or 16, every day, every fucking day that she lives and breathes and LEAVES THE HOUSE she is getting it. So – who is more experiences? The HB 9 or the PUA? Almost every time the HB9. If she’s 18, and the PUA has been gaming 3 months hard core (I mean, my level of hard core – Yad’s level of hard core, AFC_Adam London level hard core) I put it at around a tie, maybe. But you take a HOT 25 year old woman she’ been in (let’s work this out. 10 years, at say, conservatively, 3 sets a day. 365 x 10 x 3 = 10950. So almost eleven THOUSAND sets. Let’s say, some days she was sick and didn’t go out, fine let’s round it down 11% to ten thousand. TEN THOUSAND FUCKING SETS GUYS. Have you opened ten thousand sets? Nooooo. Not many PUA’S have. So – who’s going to have the advantage? The better lines? Reflexes? Instincts? Overall calibration? Who’s going to have the home turf advantage? She is! You’re approaching HER. She’s the home team. She is ready to destroy you. She eats guys like you for breakfast. So like I’ve been saying more and more the only way to counter this, (truly counter) is to have a massive amount of in field time as well. Experience defeats experience. This is all common sense shit. I’m not breaking any new ground here but… it just really occurred to me as I was verbally sparring with this chick. She was GOOD man. And she was only fucking 22! But by my calculations she’s already been in over 7000 sets by that age. 7000!!!
Now, I’m not saying that WE, the world’s pua’s need to open 10k sets before we’re good. That would be madness…. We have a lot of advantages. Firstly, we’re going out there with a purpose and continually improving. We have clear goals (getting laid in most cases) and if you work on something constantly you improve a lot quicker. Girl’s don’t have a goal, they just develop these reflexes as a defense (I supposed their goal is NOT to get laid, haha) … they can’t say yes to every guy, can they? Their vaginas would explode. Or their belly from hundreds of different sperm fighting each other for supremacy. Ewww…. We have set strategies, routines, books, bodies of knowledge, forums, friends, other pua’s and want not, that are there to help us improve. We have NEED on our side. They don’t. The female APUA (yep, new term has been coined – the anti pua!) is just merely acting/learning out of necessity. Out hunger for sex/companionship DRIVES us. I reckon the PUA in the end has the bigger advantage, but only after a lot of tine in the field/study. Initially, when one enters the game, the woman has a massive edge. Enough to break any pua (unless he is a true natural, in which case, why is he even in the game?)
So some advice to aspiring pua’s …Go for the younger girls.
Eh?
Yea. They have far fewer defenses. They haven’t been in the game nearly long enough. So, they’re not as good. Go for them. Keep it legal, obviously 18+ and all that. I don’t wanna advocate and dodgy behavior. “Sure, officer, I knew she was 14 but this PUA on this blog said, the young’uns were easier…” but 18, 19, 20, 21 year olds are going to be waaaaaaay easier than 25-28 year olds. Those are the toughest, they’re still (often) hot but they are EXPERIENCED APUA’s and they will destroy the inexperienced PUA….. then if they get up to 30+ they get easier again, they’re not in their prime anymore and they soften up… especially around 35 onwards… but a 25 year old hottie is going to be the toughest set you ever had. Or a 30 year old, if she is still fucking hot… right?
So the battle rages on. APUA’s vs PUA’s!! Sounds like fucking star wars, doesn’t it? Hehe…. But… who’s on the dark side and who’s on the light side? I suppose that depends on who’s asking…. Considering I go around wearing a little devil’s hat with horns…. Naaaaah we’re definitely the good guys. And the vagina blockers must be stopped! Hypens must be destroyed!! MuahHHAhaHaHAHA
Ok ok we’re the bad guys. Fuck it. The bad guys have more fun anyways…..
Feb 12th
Today was fun. Was sarging with matt a bit then with yad. Did a gig as well. Jeez it’s so easy now it’s like automatic. Just stopping girls and getting their number. I got like 5 or 6 today plus facebooks. It’s just silly really. I’m just seeing how far I can push the siliness/directness in some sets because I already have too many/ can’t keep track of the girls I’m meeting. It’s ridiculous. Girls are adding me on facebook, hot girls – and I’m messaging them with “hey uh, sorry, who are you again? Where did we meet? Why do you want to be my friend?” cuz I can’t remember. They’re fucking gorgous student girls in their 20’s and I really just don’t know.
One girl today was pretty hot this American. She was loving me so I just found out she didn’t have a BF. Then I just said “how long has it been since you’ve had sex?” and she’s like “a while!” and I said “we’re going to fuck. What’s your number?” and she gives me her number. i walked off thinking “it can’t be that easy, let’s see” and I text her “hope I didn’t scare u, I won’t hurt you. I’m normal. Haha. Let’s meet tomorrow for a drink” and she said “I’m up for that”
This girl was hot.
Another one was crossing the street and I was like “omg, you’re crossing over just to talk to me. I don’t really like girls that are that forward. You should wave first next time, hehe”
Got some hot philipino girls’ number who hasn’t had a BF in 3 years (warning sign) she kinda had crooked ass teeth though a hot body, probably won’t call her
Got this black girls number who was cute, fun, and had an amazing body (gold tooth though, hrmmm….)
Some other numbers I can’t even remember
Oh I’m on the way to my mate’s house and there’s this hot Spanish girl. I open her, she’s a bit upset and tell me she was just on a date and the guy kissed her on the check. Right off I’m goin shock and awe (she was drunk) telling her hot hot she is. I said
“hey you can kiss me and pretend I’m him if you want” … she’s like”no!” and I said “kidding” … I was getting my hands on her and she wasn’t objecting. She’s like “I have to talk to my flatmates etc” and … well she’s torn between me and going home. I’ve seen this in girls before, more and more. Where they really are torn between 2 courses of action. Think about this. It means that any moment you’re just one tiny though pattern away from – whatever it is you’re trying to convince a girl to do. Get her number, get her to buy you a drink, get her to sleep with you. It’s THAT close. She’s litereally walking away from me, then walking back. It’s almost irrational. Surely she knows if she wants to leave right at THAT moment or talk to me? But no, they don’t. we know, don’t we fellas? Anyways I didn’t force it (it felt dirty and too easy. Some chode probably spent half his pay getting her drunk, didn’t have the balls to kiss her (maybe he didn’t like her??) and here I am face to face with this horny lonely girl. I think I could have done it… got her back to mine… but… I was actually looking forward to getting to my mate’s house. I had to print something. Thinking back, I should have pushed it. Why not? She was hot!! Anyways I took her number and she was like “yea call me, for sure, I wanna see you…” but then I got a text from yad that he # closed this girl we were just talking to on the tube (and then I called him to tell him about this drunk chick) but when I clicked end I erased her number as I hadn’t actually saved it yet. Lol FUCK! Ah well. Just one of like, billions of girls.
Oh we open this set and one of the girls knows me and I recognize I’d already sarged her and I’m like “hey I know her, lol!!” this happened yesterday as well, this girl opens me cuz we already talked … I knew her face, but from where? Her name? no fucking clue. Same thing happened yesterday, this girl who was with her friends was like “hey! Sasha!! Over here!” and I’m like …errr…. Yeah…hi….
Oh yesterday was with matt was well, he stayed in set with one girl I sicked him on. She was like an hb 9.5 … so fucking hot it was unreal, and just at the end she said she had a BF and he ejected. I yelled at him “dude what are you doing. Her friends are goin to look like her – you should have just framed it like she was awesome and you wanted to be friends and that’s that” once again, ask them early on, then u can frame the whole interaction as “we should be pals”
Erm, yea, I’m not even meeting up with all these fucking girls, same with yad. It’s silly. We both have to actually STOP sarging and just go on dates with all these chicks. I think between wed and Sunday I have to meet up with ..jeez it’s a few. I’ll be posting date reports and crap!! Oh it’s gonna be some fun times.
Well, I haven’t been blogging because… I got tired of blogging all the time I guess. I’ve come to a level where getting #’s from girls is piss fucking easy. They don’t even mean anything anymore, and it isn’t interesting to write about so I don’t bother. If I lay a girl, seriously mess around with one (in bed, not emotionally :P ) I’ll put it on here.
Err, then again another PUA told me that he got really good when he started writing up everything that happened. But I talk to so many girls, well I don't really have the time – but I’ll make an effort to put more on here. I really don’t even know if anyone is reading this, lol but fuck it I’ll keep hammering away. Basically I’ve just finished a 30 day challenge when my goals (at the beginning) were to try go for makeouts in every set, and try giving my # out to girls without taking their number. Well, both these goals are fucking ridiculous, I can tell you right now.
Here’s why:
Make out in every set? Eh? You’re going to get slapped around if you try and make out with every chick you meet. Sometimes it’s just damned inappropriate. I mean, yea, I wasn’t going for it as much as I should have but certainly going for it all the time would have been a massive over correction. No the goal should have been “go for a make out in any nighttime situation where I’m getting ioi’s, or daytime situation where I was getting massive ioi’s. that would have been fair enough. Anyways the reason I came up with that for my challenge was, that I was shit at physical escalation and never kissed girls even when I thought I could get away with it.
Well, I can tell you now, I’ve fucking gotten over that bit. Yea. I went to koko’s in Camden town a somewhere in week two and I make out with 3 girls in there (and 1 on a day 2 earlier) … I could have done many more, but it would just be to prove it to myself and after 3 in a row I knew I could do it. It really wasn’t hard. You give them that sexy look, let them know your intentions, keep’em chatting, keep telling them they’re fucking hot and go for it. I was using shock + awe within my conversations themselves (worked nicely for me, dunno if anyone else is doing it like that) …. *(Also I’ve realized you can go sexual at any point in an interaction. More on this in a minute.) Anyways, once you just start making out with chicks one after the other u just know you can do it. So now, when I wanna make out, I can make out. The calibration of it comes with time. I can see how the MPUA’s (hate to use the term, who can really say who is an MPUA is who is not?) but the guys who are really amazing, I can see how they can just fucking make out with a girl in 30 seconds. They just know the girl is ready. Just like I’m starting to see in a girl’s eyes when she is ready to come home, when she wants to make out. It’s there, you just have to look for it. (I can see it in the eyes, but use whatever body language/ioi’s you need to. But after a while you DO see it. Just comes down to time in the field.
Right, the 2nd thing I said I was going to do was start giving my # out to girls instead of taking their number. The idea is, if the call/text, then they are chasing you. You are the prize. Now, I want to say that I do like this idea/frame. It’s cool. I can see it working. It didn’t really work for me. I’d meet some cool girl, give her my number and never hear from her again. Some I would, some I wouldn’t. It’s just too fucking frustrating when you don’t. Well, not that frustrating as there’s always so many more sets – but still frustrating. Then again, why am I surprised. I get #’s and never call sometimes (yes I have to stop doing that) so why is it surprising that a GIRL who’s used to guys calling HER wouldn’t call me? Not that shocking really. Err – the more I think about it, the greater I think the “give your number” thing is. But I think that’s for a level of game that is slightly above where I am now. At this point, I know I am good but I still have a long way to go. I think your shit has to be really tight to be giving your # to girls and have them calling you. That being said, today I met a fucking very very cute Japanese girl, hung out with her around 15-18 mins, gave her my card and just said “hey, you’re fun. We should hang out sometime” … no time bridge, nothing…. And I had an email from her by the time I got home. This girls was hooooootttttttttttttt
So I’m getting there. The point is, with what I’ve learned and the way I’m going, yes I think I will be at a point where I’ll be able to just give my number and have the girls always calling me. It may be quite soon. But, I wasn’t at that point when I started my 30 day challenge. Of that I can be sure. Anyways, that too is situational… sometimes u won’t get a chance, or it will seem needy to ask them for their number, or SOMEthing … so just give your number in a calm manner and hope for the best. I mean, it’s a sign of confidence in itself that you trust the girl will ring you. A needy guy won’t walk away without that girls number, but a man who is used to girls chasing after him… well… he wouldn’t care if she called at all, now would he? I will be messing around with this more and more, as I have less and less time to chase after girls the better I get at it. Eventually I can see myself stopping taking numbers altogether, but not quite yet….
Right – another epiphany I had is that… well I’ve been too high fucking enery/too funny this whole time. Most guys are trying to be funnier, I have to work on being less funny. I was so busy entertaining girls I wasn’t getting any rapport. My friend got a 1 on 1 from a guy here in London, and all the guy taught him was how to have a conversation with girls, asking them questions and getting the girls into opening up and share stuff about themselves. Essentially it’s called “having a normal conversation, with a normal human being.” I realized that this is something that has fundamentally been missing from my encounters with the lovely members of the opposite sex. I was just being funny, trying to impress them into sleeping with me. And hey once in a while it would work. I’d “get lucky” … but not nearly as much as if I’d shut the fuck up and let the girl talk. Once in a while, I would create rapport by making fun of the girl and joking around, but we weren’t really having a real conversation. Right? So if you just kid around with a girl, tell her she’s hot and then get her number, is she going to feel comfortable seeing you again? I can tell you from a (significant) amount of experience that the answer, my friends, is NO. FUCK – NO.
What’s missing?
Comfort. Oh, and the other thing. Qualification. There can be no successful sarge without these ingredients (or at LEAST one of the two) … unless you’re going for fool’s mate. Then just attraction is enough.
Yes. She has to know that she can talk to you, in a normal manner if she meets up with you. Furthermore if you put her into an enhanced state with your hilarity (or say your magic if that’s your thing) or simply your MM negs / group theory – she’ll be worried that it won’t be the same when you see her. She’ll think she was just in some “weird mood” or whatever. And you’re just some fun guy that hit on her/wants to fuck her. So what? There’s millions of them. Nah, billions. If she’s hot, there’s around 2.2 billion men that want to fuck her. (that’s a guess, but if we take out the men that are too young, and too old, I’m saying 2.2B) … ooh wait, the Christians. The Buddhists. Ok I’m well off. Let’s just say 500m. ok? You’re one of 500 milion guys. So unless you’re rich, famous, or absolutely amazingly good looking, or have something else that really appeals to her … you’re just one in 500,000,000. nice, right?
But if you’re a fun, interesting guy who she can talk to and feel COMFORTABLE around, who’s she’s also ATTRACTED to… well, then you’re one in a million! Haha (see what I did there?)
Also, I’ve written about qualification before so I won’t yatter on about it but it’s very important – she needs a reason you like her other than her DD cup size. Pretty simple. So find some reasons and let her know what they are. Can be “oh, you like kung fu movies?” to “huh?? You’re like giving back rubs?” to “OMG!! You do salsa dancing?? I love salsa!!” whatever. Try to find something genuine to qualify them on…. Some charectaristic you’d want potential girlfriend to have, some activity that you actually like (or at least would really like to try) … nothing wrong with saying “omg! I totally have been meaning to try that. You’re into that? That’s it you are TAKING ME to …” (and then, hopefully, taking you ;)
Right – my phone game’s been sucking in that I’ve been texting girls. Sometimes they don’t reply then I feel needy texting them again, so whether I do or not the whole interaction is fucked. So if a girl is hot and you actually give a shit, call them first time. Me and yad have been chatting about this and we’ve realized that the best message to leave girls if you get their voicemail is the most normal one you can come up with
“hey, this is Sasha. Meet you the other day in that coffee shop. Just calling to say hey – give me a call back”
that’s it. You don’t have to be funny. It’s a little try hard. Just be normal. Don’t try arrange a date on the voicemail, more pressure. Less is more. So, now that we’ve realized this I’m officially ONLY doing that. Meet a girl, CALL the first time (no texting) and just leave
Right – now – I’ve written my attraction + soi = flake theory below and it still holds
This next month I’m going to be putting a lot of these revelations into play so we’ll see how it holds up. Where I’m sitting now, what I’m saying (to my knowledge) is the right way to go about it. If you can’t take a girl home on the night, don’t try escalate things at all. Just be fun/interesting/social …. Make plans. She won’t flake. Then you can get sexual / escalate when you have her on a day 2, near your seduction location. Ah, logistics is massive, btw … especially for one night lays….the girl I pulled home from the street the other day… it was so easy, she was standing in front of my doorstep. That may be the best place to try and sarge, btw… in front of your door! Hehe sounds creepy I know … if you’re not holding a shovel or a needle when you do it, it’s ok ….
Oh. Yeah. I should sleep.
So what am I working on
Stay in set longer – get rapport. Be less funny and more “normal”
Call every number. Leave a normal message if they don’t answer. If they answer have fun and make plans to meet.
Easy peasy!
Oh here are the official stats
Slept with: 2 girls
Head from: 2 girl (that I didn’t sleep with)
Jerked off in front of 1 girl (played with sum lovely boobs)
Hymens destroyed = 1 (yes I could have, but didn’t)
Girls that were DTF that I didn’t sleep with = 4+ (at least)
oh, I regret the Turkish girl. Oh she was fine… in my defense, when I met her round the corner from my place the reality that I could just bring girls home and sleep with them was JUST sinking in… and I thought I’d just sleep with her the next time. Well, she left the country and that’s that. SOooooooooooo lesson learned. Close the fucking deal ASAP. If you like them, you can still see them again. (unless it’s like the woman of your dreams, etc. still I would think better to do it earlier rather than later) … depends what you’re trying to get out of P.U I suppose, but there you have it.
My entire reality has changed. I know I can just bring girls back and sleep with them. And, I can see much more clearly when a girl is just down to fuck. Oh, seeing they want it, and believing it to be possible are 2 different things…. For me, I never saw it before, because deep down it wasn’t in my reality. Well… what can I say…. A month from now I’m sure I’ll be living in a another reality once again. So ask yourself this:
Has your reality changed in the last month? If not, why not ….
And what are you going to do about it?
Sasha
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