Low energy vs High Energy

July 16th
Did a great low energy set on the bus. Very short, but powerful
At once point, she wasn’t talking after I did the vacuum. So I said “now it’s your turn to talk” and she immediately said “so, what do you do?”

Spoke to ace also who told me about seb’s post about not coming in high energy – cuz then you are qualifying yourself. This makes sense. I actually spoke to seb about this a year ago. Low energy is powerful as fuck. I think it’s for the more advances player tho – high energy is a great way to hook sets when you're starting out. And high enery is contagious. Well, more specifically, enthusiasm is contagious. When you’re starting out, I’d say that’s the way to go.

Interesting note: You can be lower energy, and still enthusiastic. Lots of people think these two are mutually exclusive, but they're not!

But, if you get used to coming in high energy you get addicted to it (and ther reactions you get) so it becomes harder to switch to lower energy game later. So really i'd say, try and be lower energy but enthusiastic. experiment. i was super super too high energy for years. only now i'm calming the fuck down. it helps. far few girls are running away ;)