June 07th - Good date! On a weeknight. Sigh.

Had a date with this blonde that came to my comedy show. I met her in a restaurant… she was with 2 girls and a guy.. I joked around with them all, and before I left just said “hey you guys seem fun, come to my show” and I got her on facebook. She was very receptive on FB and came to my show the other night… and I got her number after the show.

We went to a high school musical. (don’t ask) … it was ok but we wanted to talk and left half way thru. This was a painful reminder why it’s never a good idea to see a movie, or a play or any of that shit for a date. It’s RETARDED. You can’t talk to her at ALL. What the fuck was I thinking? Well my friend was the pianist for the show which is why I wanted to go. And it was a good cause, but WHAT THE FUCK. I can’t understand why normal guys would take girls to the movies on a date. Do guys still do that?? Really?? It’s so fucking painful. unless it’s start trek or some shit. or a cool alternative movie, like kung fu or something fun. Horror, u know. Where the girls all grabbing you and shit. that’s ok. But to the shitty ass boring standard Hollywood movies. NO.

After we escaped the clutches of high school musical mediocrity……Chatting we actually have some personal (painful) shit in common. She does have a quirky sense of humour. I didn’t use anything even resembling game chatting to her. We just talked. Well.. putting my hands on her, kissing her neck… kissing her. It all seemed so natural. I guess it’s easy when the girl is into you. No game required

The plan was to go to her place but she said at like 9 she turns into a pumpkin at 10… she has to be u at 7am for a meeting. She has a proper job and all. I walk her to the car, making out 3 times on the way. the last time on the car.. serious tongue and groping action. These is a chance I could get back to hers but I know it’s not the right move. She has to work, and it’s a virtually a guaranteed lay next week. Why push for it here?

Interesting tho – she’s a good girl. was in a relationship for 10 years (wow) which ended last summer. Since then, she’s just dated one guy for a bit. That’s it. She’s like a 2 on the partygirl scale. I always feel guilty sleeping with these type of good girls because I know she wants to date properly and all….

Fuck!

She only dates one guy at a time… she’s never had a one night stand or a fling. Or anything like that. Hhmmmmm. And yet, here we are on date 1 and I know if it was a fri or sat I’d have nailed her.

Also: I broke my own non escalation rule (don’t escalate or heavy makeout/grope if you can’t close) … but it felt ok. I guess if there is a real connection (more than just attraction) it’s ok to break the rule….. If the girl likes you it’s ok to make out. If she flakes and I never see her again I’ll feel like an idiot. But… I’m guessing it will be fine. One long date with a couple of bounces and it should be a done deal

I’m already thinking how to frame the whole “Dating” thing … or ‘ I don’t want anything serious, etc” ….i actually mentioned Johnny soporno’s philosophy to her in passing. Like “I have a friend that…” … she wasn’t against it, but said she just was the way she was. Fair enough

Now knowing she wouldn’t want to sleep with me if she knew I was always gonna sleep with other girls, is it wrong to sleep with her and not tell her first? It’s a bit dodgy. I may tell her before… but I’ll do it right before I sleep with her so it’s too late. Like I’ll have my thumb in her while licking her clit and I’ll be like “listen, I’m not really looking for anything serious and I don’t wanna mislead you. Should we stop?”

Hahahah

No. I dunno. I guess I’ll kind of wing it, but I don’t want to hurt the girl. she’s a sweet girl.

Oh she’s early 30’s and has a fucking stonking hot body. Tiny, 105 pounds, flat stomach, amazing ass. Like really nice. I couldn’t believe it when I grabbed her ass. I was like “holy shit” … I’m not even an ass guy, but damn.

It's funny how 32 is an much "older" woman for me. Like, i'm 30 ... but i always date girls in their 20's ... at 32 she's like, and older lady. you know? it's retarded. like she looks in her 30's... it's weird. i really think i'll be dating girls in their 20's for the next 20 years. it is what it is... i just like 'em HOT. i'm not saying there aren't hot girls in their 30's. there are. just not many of them.

I’ll ring her in a couple of days and arrange a date… for the weekend.