oct 12th hangin with johnny

was thinking of some of the stuff Johnny S. told me. hung out with him before i left toronto. I was mulling it over so hadn't posted it on my blog but better late than never.

Here's a facebook message I send to my friend talking about hanging with the S man...


I hung out some more with Johnny Soporno Yesterday. He likes me and is kinda taking me under his wing a bit. I think I remind him of himself when I was younger (he is funny and jewish too) ... and he used to do stand up comedy!! WEird huh?

Anyways he taught me this thing which is really good. REady? I'm probably cut and paste this and add it into my blog but you get it first.

This can be done either in conversation or by text. I did it for the first time yesterday via text with this one girl and it went like this

first text "hey looking forward to meeting up with you later. just to let you know, I don't kiss on first dates"

girl says "i appreciate your honesty, haha see you soon"

2nd text "don't worry though, dates only last 30 minutes. if we get along, the second date will start before the first one finishes. that's where the heavy making out takes place..."

girl "hmm glad you're planning it out then..."

3rd text. "Oh don't worry. I'm not a slut ... I never sleep with a girl till the 4th date!"


see what's going on? you're giving the girl permission to sleep with you on the (actual) first date ... but you're setting the fram that she banged you on the 4th date. then she can tell her friends (and herself) that is was on date 4 she banged you and that's it's all good.

What he does is make girls really comfortable around him and make them realize that society is fucked up and has programed them to think certain behavior is slutty and he makes them realize it isn't so. he also explained ladder theory to me - that is - there's a friend ladder and a lover ladder. women can never really be themselves with you if they put you on the lover ladder. and you don't wanna be on the friend ladder either - so you have to put the ladders together. be their friend, that they sleep with. then she will really be herself and there's no bullshit.

it's the ultimate!!

anyways the guy knows his shit. i'll be hanging out with him more this month as he's from toronto also ...


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that was the mesage. good stuff. i kind of tried to apply some if this my last day in l.a where i had 2 dates with hot girls. haven't blogged about it but I ran into this girl who I;d sarged in London. got her number, called her at 2am and demanded she meet me for a shake. she came out, we were making out and i was flying out the next day. Told her i really wanted to fuck her but logistics were in the way

actually on my earlier date (american girl which i almost fucked in london - the one with the super hot body... i was getting to it and she saw it was late and ran off. anyways she has a long distance BF who actually cheated on her and she's still with him. I was like "bingo!" ... i went through some of the stuff explaining marriage is dumb, etc and i want to keep her as a friend etc... was making some progress but wasn't really trying as she honestly is quite a simple (kinda relegious) gal and believes in monogomy. fuck man she is so damn cute. i told her next time she is single and i am on the same continent i'm going to fly over and bang the shit out of her. at first she protested but then said it would be fine.

ah well. i'll get it. still have to work on my closing game (the one i was kissing i should have fucked!)

sigh...