nov 3rd update

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Whaddaup ya’ll!
Just an update: nothing major has happened, no lays :(
Let’s see, on haloween we went to this club that had a UFT party. IT was mainly girls that were HOT! Seriously! The music was SO loud it was killing me. I really don’t like that kind of environment. I spoke to a few girls but nothing much happened. As soon as we left the club we linked up and went to fran’s with these girls. My one was very hot 20 year old Indian. She’s a virgin!! Aack!! Had my hands all over her, no kiss. Hopefully seeing her before I go to Amsterdam

The bartender – I called her and she told me she’s hooked up with some guy – I met up with her anyways but she was tired after work and there was nothing going on. She was really up for it before I went to l.a – but hey – 10 days can change everything, you know? Moving around a lot is not good for your game (unless you’re a night game guy!)
the balerina: she flaked after a great fist date. she had the boyfriend/girlfriend standard mindset. i tried but i'm not sure i put it accross right. ah well... will keep working on it. this re-enforces my rule: don't get too fresh if you can't fuck. also, don't go on day 2's during the week when girls have to be up early. it's just not good.

Saw this girl I had a date with a few weeks ago. She came round to Johnny Soporno’s place and we hung with him, his porn star girlfriend and a couple of his friends. Good guys. We watched highlander! But right after the movie she had to split as she’s gotta be up at 5.30am.
I was really determined and actually dragged her to a restaurant to get rice pudding but after she said down she was like “I have to sleep or I’ll be useless tommor!”
I told her she should take wed off from her martial arts class to make sweet love. She’s like “ok I’ll hang out with you but we’re not going to have sex!” and I said “ok, as long as I get your boobies in my mouth!” and she’s like “no!” … anyways I’ll see

Going back I was horny and I opened this cute Korean girl who was SO fucking cold to any sexual stuff. I hung out with her for like 45 mintes but if I tried to kiss her check or hug her she’s get freaked out. She’s been single for a year, no sex. Played the question game: she doesn’t even masturbate!! I’m thinking if I can get her horny maybe I can do this. She kept saying “ I think you’re wasting your time” but she kept stickin around. Fuck it. I tried.

I realized something: you probably CAN lay (virtually) any girl but it’s just a matter of time. You need to realize (realistically) how much time you’ll have to put in to lay a girl. It’s a matter of how easy the girl is, how horny she is, how much she likes you initially, and how tight your game is. If you meet a girl like this one, in a club, just fucking move on. However I realized today that really investing and plowing and building comfort is the way to success with any particular girl. It occurred to me that maybe I should pretend, when I open some hot girl on the street (where there are tons of girls) I have to act like there ARE no other girls around, you know? Maybe too much abundance is bad for my game. How hard am I going to try knowing I can wait a couple of minutes and just open the next got girl that walks by?? I let too many sets just get away even tho I chase some
CHASE THEM ALL! Pretend that IS the LAST hot girl in the WORLD! Your LAST chance at sex. Your LAST chance at a GIRLFRIEND> your last chance for HAPPYNESS!! There she goes!! She’s running away! FUCKING GO AFTER HER!!! the sets not over till she COMPLETELY dismisses you
i.e “Fuck off”
or “no really, I have a boyfriend. I’m not inetersted”
if she just says “thanks” and keeps walking, go after her. if she does anything other than make it VERY clear she’s not interested, GO GO GO!!!

oh i just got this email from this guy who loves my blog. here it is.
" Stumbled across your blog a while back. Hands down the best PUA blog I've seen. Best combination of methods, underlying psych & relevant stories I've found. To me, it seems like your blog is an afterthought, a sideshow to the main event. Nice work. "
awwwwwww. isn't that sweet? I knew he was buttering me up ad he send me another message right after asking if I wanted to meet up for some "three way fun" ... and that I had to bring the girl. Typical value taker!!
I'm kidding. There was no such second email. Anyways, thanks buddy. Good to know someone is reading this shit!! :) and NO, i'm NOT goint to SLEEP with you!!

Hanging with Johnny was cool. He’s ALWAYS teaching this stuff. He really loves it! I feel privileged to be exposed to him and his ways. I understand what he’s saying – I just need to put it into actual. I lack the self control….
I gotta watch his damn video’s on his site!

Oh I spoke to my buddy dave on msn. I asked him about escalation as I got an email about it from a guy and was talking to him about it. Here’s his reply...

touch the hand, back off.. kiss on the cheek, slow.. back off.. kiss, just a fleeting brush on the lips, back off.. deep kissing, back off maybe still holding hands.. hands on nipples while kissing, back off... hand on vagina, back off.. sooner or later you have her so hot she attacks you …
women are cats
chase and they run
sit still and they hop on your lap
make sure that every impression you give them is a positive one to their instincts
but then walk away
The tao of steve.. i still have to see it
be desireless, be excellent, walk away
whether it's a girlfriend, a chick I just met, or one who for the last 12 hours has been chasing me and sticking her tongue down her throat... The minute I start persuing in that certain way, they run. Either out of fear, or not finding it attractive, or just finding it fun to be chased and playing hard to get (the last one is ok sometimes, like tag. You're it.. then she's it.. you play back and
forth.. that's great actually, gets em really hot)

Dave’s my natural friend. He’s 40 and is always fucking several girls ranging from 18-29
Can you see why? Heh….I’ll have to interview him at some point!! Hehe